It requires Him Hours to Respond. Ought I Wait A Little For Him to Text?

Reader Question:

I really like this person and then he has said he really likes me. We texted over the past week, but now whenever I text him, required him hours to respond.

I don’t wish have a look fanatical, but I would like to speak with him.

Should I just not text him and loose time waiting for him to text me personally?

-Danielle (Ohio)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Solution:

Dear Danielle,

I have two bits of advice available.

1. Stop texting. Loose time waiting for his telephone call or ask him to contact the next time he texts.

2. Stop chasing him. Males dislike to search in a zoo.

You have lost this along with your zealousness. Next time might consist of yourself and try to let him do the chasing.

Keep in mind, sperm chases egg. Perhaps not the reverse.

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